Have you ever felt like you’re doing everything right, and your manifestation still isn’t happening?
Yea, me too! Especially here lately; however, I want to reassure you and myself that this is just part of the process. Manifestations stall for a reason and there is always something to learn from it.
Why Do Manifestations Stall?
Manifestation isn’t just about wanting something. It isn’t a plea to God or the universe for your wish to be granted. In order for manifestations to occur, which I believe prayer is a form of manifestation, you must be in alignment with the request, it must be the right time, and your mindset has to be right.
Remember: A delay in your request doesn’t mean denial. Stalling is not failure.
Common Reasons Your Manifestation Isn’t Showing Up
Limiting Beliefs
Limiting beliefs often come up when we least expect them. Look we have been doing the work. We have forgiven ourselves, we have forgiven others, we have made peace with situations….. and then the ugly head of a limiting beliefs appears once again. Limiting beliefs are subconscious thoughts that contradict ideas. For example, “I don’t deserve this” or “This is too hard.”
Resistance and Control
Another area that can cause manifestation to stall is through resistance and control. I am a control freak! There I admitted it; however, when it comes to manifesting my desires, I have learned that I have to let it go. Manifestations occur in so many more ways than one can ever think! I am learning to let go and remember that everything always works out and everything is figureoutable. I cannot control every aspect of my life, but I can control how I react. So stop trying to force outcomes.
In addition to trying to force outcomes, we have to stop obsessing over the how and when. How will I get the money to pay my taxes? When will I get that promotion? It doesn’t matter. It will happen how it happens and when it is supposed to happen. If you need more inspiration in letting go, besides watching Frozen go back to my blog entitled: “Letting Go of Control to Invite Flow.”
Misalignment
Misalignment is a big one when it comes to manifestation stalls. Just the other day, I realized that I was in misalignment with my goals. I had written a goal at the beginning of the year to pay off $10,000 in debt. You know what, I didn’t put down an income goal that I had. Big mistake! Huge! I realize that my large tax bill was the universe granting me my manifestation of paying off a large portion of debt. Why didn’t it dawn on me last year when I made the same goal so I could course correct this year? You know what? It doesn’t matter why, but I have learned that I misaligned myself because I was not clear on what I actually wanted to occur. So you know what I did and am doing? I have written out a specific income goal for this month. I am tracking it daily. This could be anything from discounts received, free product, or actual income. I want the universe to know that I am a good steward of the funds that I am blessed with and will continue to also pay down that debt, that I apparently asked for.
Goals and intentions must be clear because honestly the universe is giving me what I asked for, but not what I intended! Another way to look at misalignment is if you are wanting financial freedom, but you are avoiding financial responsibility. You cannot be free financially, if you are not willing to take inspired action to make the dream come true.
Divine Timing vs. Your Timeline
This is always a hard one. We all want our desires to come over night; however, that is not reality. We must have patience and trust the timing. Interestingly enough, timing is often delayed because we are still growing into the versions of ourselves that can handle the manifestation, that can appreciate the manifestation, and can keep growing so that we don’t lose what we are requesting.
What Stalled Manifestations Are Trying To Teach You
When manifestations stall it is teaching us patience. Remember nothing happens instantly. We have to be patient. It teaches us trust. We learn to trust ourselves, trust timing, and believe that things are working out even when we don’t see the progress. Remember you don’t lose 100 lbs. by going to the gym one time, because if you did honey, I would be so fit. Stalls teach us self-awareness. We recognize patterns, beliefs, habits that are occuring so we can continue to navigate, grow, and become better versions of ourselves. These are all good things! Stalls in manifestation allow us to become better versions of ourselves and continue to work out blocks that we have missed. Spoiler alert: These blocks will continue to happen at all levels of manifestation. Personal Growth is continued growth!
How To Move Through A Stall
Now let’s get down to how we navigate a manifestation stall when we realize we are in one. First and foremost, awareness! Check your thoughts! What are you consistently thinking? I am not going to lie, I am struggling on this one in two areas:
1) Debt reduction – I realize that one got me, now I am reframing to think about income generation
2) Health – I have made jokes about a scary health situation, and had a health scare. Reframing to healthy body and my cells are repairing themselves daily!
Stop trying to force timelines. Realize that everything you are working towards will work out when you are in alignment and the timing is right.
Here is my favorite step you can do and that is take aligned action! Get up and do something for yourself. You want an expensive house, upgrade your current one. Small incremental changes that help you live your best life and make you feel like the queen you are! Go for it. Recently, we painted our half bathroom, picked up a few pieces of cute whimisical decor, and it feels like a brand new room! Additionally, I decluttered two kitchen cabinets and added shelf liner. I even measured and cut that all by myself. It instantly improved the kitchen and my mood. Take inspired action, small actions that show you are ready to level up!
Lastly, instead of focusing on where is my manifestation? Where is my request? Switch your focus to who am I becoming? What am I being called to build?
Final Thoughts
Remember that stalls occur to everyone and at all levels of those who are creating their own lives through manifestation. Nothing is ever wasted. Lessons are meant to be learned and we are meant to grow. Everything, including stalls, are meant to prepare you for your next level. Reframe the thoughts around stalls and ask yourself, “What if the delay isn’t blocking you, but building you?”
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