I finally finished Sorry I’m Late, I Didn’t Want to Come by Jessica Pan—and honestly, I don’t know what took me so long! This hilarious and heartfelt book follows Jessica, a self-described introvert, through a one-year experiment of saying yes to the things that terrify her:
- Talking to strangers
- Taking improv classes
- Performing stand-up comedy
- Hosting a dinner party
Throughout her journey, Jessica discovers that stepping out of her comfort zone doesn’t mean losing herself. Instead, she gains new tools to navigate an extrovert’s world while staying true to her introspective, solitude-loving nature.
Why This Book Resonated With Me
Like Jessica, I often dread social obligations. But her story helped me see that:
✅ I can do these things.
✅ I can learn to navigate social situations with more confidence.
✅ I can challenge myself without losing my sense of self.
Reading this book reminded me that being social isn’t about loving every interaction—it’s about developing the skills to manage them. That can enhance professionalism, combat loneliness if it creeps in, and—let’s be honest—help us realize that making friends as an adult looks a lot different than it did as kids.
My Biggest Takeaway
👉 Try new things.
If you fail? Oh well. At least you tried.
You’re probably not going to die (at least not in most scenarios!), and you might walk away with a lesson or perspective you didn’t expect.
Final Recommendation
If you’re an introvert who’s curious about what it might look like to act like an extrovert for a while—or if you just want a good laugh and some inspiration—I highly recommend Jessica Pan’s Sorry I’m Late, I Didn’t Want to Come.
💬 Have you read this book? Or do you have a go-to book that’s helped you navigate introversion, confidence, or personal growth? I’d love to hear your recommendations—drop them in the comments!
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